Marriage in Islam

Marriage in Islam 

A Person Who Marries, Fulfills Half of His Deen.Safeguard his Modesty and Keep Safe himself From Evil and Haraam Sexual Relations.Indeed, Islam is a Perfect Religion to Take Guidance in Every Matter of Life.Islam has Prescribed Certain Rules which Can Be Used in Finding a True Life Partner.Islam Gives Freedom of Choosing Life Partner to Both Men and Women.Its not a Good Act In Islam If a Father Puts his Daughter/Son Forcefully into a Marriage.A Partner who Fulfills Half Deen in Real Sense.Who Truly Complements.

A Woman is Married Cause of 4 Reasons, Cause of Her Beauty,Cause of Her Wealth,Cause of Her Social Rank and Cause of Her Religion.Its Preferable For a Muslim Man to Marry a Religious Woman.Cause In the End It Will Be The Character We Will Be Dealing With Not the Beauty,Wealth and Social Rank.That Person Will Be a Looser Who Will Ignore The Religious Factor.

In Holy Qur'an Its Clearly Mentioned That Men of Purity Are For Women of Purity.An Evil Woman Can Ruin The Coming Generation.Allah Created Men and Women to complement One Another (In Legal Ways Only) So That They Can Procreate and Live in Peace.If a Man Is Able To Marry Then He Should Marry It Will Help Him To Lower His Gaze and Guard His Modesty.

Marry Is a Sunnah and Who Will Keep Away From It He Will Disobey the Teachings of Islam.Marriage is the Only Way to Keep Families into Existence.If a Person Can Afford Then He Should Marry.In Case If A Person Cant Make Sufficient Living Then He Should Also Marry (If He Fears That He Will Not Be Able To Safeguard His Modesty and Will Commit Fornication).

A Muslim Man is Not Allowed to Marry His Mother His Step-Mother
His grandmother (including father's and mother's mothers and all preceding mothers' e.g. great grandmothers) ,His Daughter,His Sister,His father's sisters,His mother's sisters ,His Brother's Daughters,His Foster Mother,His foster mother's sister,His sister's daughter,His foster sister,His wife's mother,
His step-daughter ,His real son's wife.

A Man is Not Allowed to Marry A Woman Who Is Already Married However This Impediment Is Removed If Marriage Is Dissolved Either By The Death Of Her Former Husband or By Divorce.A Man Is Not Allowed to Marry A Woman During Her Iddah.It Is Not A Good Act In Islam To Put A Proposal Against The Proposal of Another Muslim Brother.

I Have Witnessed A  Case Of My Friend's Brother ,He Was Engaged With Her Cousin , Her One Aunt (His Father's Sister) Knows That His Nephew Is Engaged With That Girl ,Still That Lady Put Proposal For Her Boy And That Girl's Parents Break The Engagement And Accepted New Proposal Because New Proposal Was Better.That Was Not A Right Act Cause This May Create Family Conflict Later.

In A Nutshell:

-A Muslim Man Should Marry A Muslim Woman.

-A Muslim Man Should Not Marry A Mushrilk Woman.

-Intention of Getting Married Should Be Making A Family and Safeguarding Modesty.

-Priority Should Be Given To Religious Factor Not To Just Beauty and Wealth.

Now People Have Forgotten  The Tradition Of Doing  Nikkah In Masjid If We See Christians and Jews They Do Their Nikkahs in Their Churches.We Should Make the Marriage Ceremony As Simple As Possible and Must Ignore The Extravagant Expenses on Useless Things.

May ALLAH Guide Us and Help Us In Finding A Real Partner.

Ameen 

Ameen 

Allahumma Ameen